We are born in connection and always have the drive to be in a close relationship where intimacy and space play an important role.

Through the nurturing and socialisation phases basic needs of the infant are often not met, and we build character defences and develop reactive behaviours which form a repetative pattern and a win-win situation becomes elusive.

Throughout our later relationships we strive to regain the lost or denied selves. We choose partners who are least qualified but who are the right person to be there for our connection and healing.

FAMSA has different approaches of assisting clients in discovering the resources within themselves and their system, and to change and grow into the happy persons they are destined to be.

Success is measured by your courage to reach out and contact FAMSA, and to commit to a series of sessions as change and growth is a process.

Stop the blame and shame for the sake of yourself, your spouse and the children, and venture into the challenge of change for effective communication and rewarding relationships and much joy.